Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Expectations revisited

Good morning, Sir.

I love you. I wanted to ask you some questions to help figure out where we go from here.

What do you love about our relationship? What actions, attitudes, moments, patterns, would you definitely want to keep?

What do you like about our relationship, that you're willing to live without? The luxury things, the things that make you feel extra special, but aren't the most satisfying or necessary day to day things?

What are you trying to avoid altogether? What things do you want to ensure we do not repeat, either from our relationship with each other, or previous ones?

What's your ideal going forward?

What's your biggest fear?

I'm going to answer these questions myself. I'm not going to post them yet, though. I want you to have your own answers, without being influenced by mine, then we can share them together. I can't help but wonder if maybe you and I are so caught up in being who other people want us to be, that we're ignoring the fact that we very likely want alot of the same things.

In writing my answers, the overall theme for me is this- I love you so very much, and I'm willing to work and sacrifice to make this work.

I love you, Sir.

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